Coming Together

This Program is a labour of love and commitment to couples growing their game and finding appreciation and joy within one another for generations to come.

Growing up in two different homes with two sets of relational dysfunction, one was the silent and hidden kind and the other was the argumentative and oppositional kind, I made a vow to myself to uncover what made great relationships and how I could live that. This inner quest brought me around the world to turn over relational rocks in varying forms to see what works and what doesn’t work. Whether it was in a sporting capacity where your relationship meant the difference between the olympics or not; or exploring the intricacies of being wed and marriage when you don’t fit societal mode; or developing games based on neurology to see how couples played in varying settings and circumstances; I have been observing RELATING-SHIP since I was a wee toddler.

The Games in this program (of the PG-rated nature) provide opportunities to give loving attention to one another and cultivate an environment of understanding and appreciation. Retaining at 75% vs the typical learning environment of 25%, you can be sure that you will be shifted at a cellular level.

Each game has been designed to be playful, systematic, and nurturing a deeper and more sustainable outcome. You will observe the following set up for each game:

On Your Marks: which is all about “WHY you would want to play the game?”

Get Set: which answers the inner question of “WHAT technically is this game about?”

Go: explains ‘Rules of the Game’ so you know HOW to play

Going the Distance: allowing the game to Impact your relationship into the future

This program is for couples who want to deepen their connection and have an enduring relationship that has them still laughing and loving through their golden years … “Come as you are” I say but be ready to “Become who you were meant to be”

To best engage with the program:

• Prepare & Plan for magic: Diarize at least an hour for each game and cultivate an environment that supports loving expansion with each other!
• Be Present: Remove distractions by leaving phones out of the room and bring your mind and attention to the game, your partner and the experience.
• Be Open: Bring a “beginners mind” to each game so that any inner chatter of “I already know this” gets dissolved and receptivity takes its place.
• Detach from a certain outcome: There is no certain way its supposed to go - release any attachments you might have and experience a lot more fun!

Now, its time to stop getting ready to get ready and head in there for some loving fun!